He could explains life, but not his own. He wanted to save lives of others, but he failed and even worse, with cost of another's and his own. He proved the truth like this: it's not the "it" that you want, it's the fantasy of "it" that you want.
I am a 100 percent straight and 100 percent iron-blood man, who has absolute no interest in following genres: romance, family, children, gay and so on.